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Why Are We Having Less Sex?
“My partner and I have been together a while. In the beginning, things were hot, hot, HOT! I'm talking sometimes every night, if not a couple times a day! And now? We're lucky if we have sex once a week. What happened?”
As I've said before, you don't ha…
5 Best Jobs to Meet Single Women
We all need to earn a living so we can pay those pesky things called bills, but that doesn’t mean we can’t hold jobs that help our social lives, too.
In fact, there are several jobs where meeting women is an even bigger perk than getting a paycheck with four numbers …
Rules For One Night Stands
Before M snagged me, and I became monogamous, I was the queen of the one night stand. I had too much baggage to be involved in much more, and I really like sex, so there were only two other options, really. And since friends with benefits still required more commitment than I was interested in, I go…
The Ultimate Relationship Gift Guide
There's just two weekends till Christmas, and you are in a relationship. I don't care how many times you talked about it, or how many times you agreed not to get each other something, you're both going to be disappointed if there's nothing from each other under the tree...
Being Yourself And Love
My baby sister's taking the plunge. Some day. They're living together and there's a ring involved, yet she insists they're not engaged. But she's getting a jump start on reading up on marriage advice and planning her fairy tale wedding on Pinterest...
Women Aren’t The Only Ones Who Say No To Sex
M and I get into abnormal conversations with complete strangers. That is to say that complete strangers feel comfortable talking to us about things they normally wouldn't discuss with other complete strangers. The second they find out I work in the adult industry, and I give sex and relationshi…
Erotica: The Bedroom Booster?
I heard you read 50 Shades of Grey. That's cool. I haven't. But not because it's kinky. Because me and erotica don't always get along.
You're like, “What the eff, Rayne? You're all about sex, but you don't like erotica?”
I have to admit th…
Friends With Benefits – Why Not?
You are it. Not like “it” in Tag, or the kind of “it” that means you have to do some crappy task your boss created for you last night while plotting your demise. No, this kind of “it” is the kind that finds you driving the hotties home from rock shows, and gets you the best assignments at work, and …
What Exactly is Cheating? Here’s How to Define It.
 
The other day, I was discussing cheating with a woman who does a lot for the online community we're building at my “real job”...which, for those not in the know, just happens to be an adult website. The woman is in a committed relationship with two men. But she, like most people, defines cheating a…
Some Truths About the “Big O”: It’s All Relative
The other day, someone tweeted five steps to a better "o". They went like this:
1 – Do it yourself.
2 – Do it yourself.
3 – Do it yourself.
4 – Do it yourself.
5 – Do it yourself.
Mere seconds after the original tweet was posted, it flooded my timeline as ot…

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