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Is It Cool To Ask How Much Money My Date Makes?
After reading my article about e-dating, and the part about listing your job, a friend of mine emailed me to ask about one of the questions that is common on dating sites. It's a question that frustrates me to no end, but almost every dating site (even the ones geared toward kinky folks) gives …
Five Rules To Help You Not Suck At Online Dating
The other day, M was iming a buddy, and he turns to me and says, “So, R's on Match.com.”
“Wait...what?” I asked, incredulity tinging my voice.
“Yeah. He's frustrated with his single status, and can't find a date in his wood s…
Five Golden Rules Of Sex
There are a lot of rules to sex. Some of them are tricky because they're different from person to person, like how to stimulate the g-spot. Others though...they're pretty constant. These are the five most important rules of engagement in sex...
What Not To Do If Your Partner Cheats
Okay, so your partner cheated. There are no ands, ifs, or buts about it. You found the evidence. You talked to the offending party. You confronted your partner. It's real, and now you have to do something about it. But what?
Really, that's up to you...
The Reality Behind 50 Shades Of Gray
Yesterday was steak and a BJ day. Normally I'm all for it. Who doesn't like BJs? But all week I've been out of commission. So I ordered M some pizza and went to bed. In my defense, despite not feeling well, I made him steak on Tuesday, and gave him a BJ on Wednesday, so it's…
How To Deal With Breaking Up Like An Adult
It happened. The last straw that the two of you had to carry has broken the camel's back. The camel,  your straw, and all the pieces of your broken heart are scattered all over the ground. You don't know exactly how it happened, or even when, but as this particular argument wears on, …
Does Condom Use Make You A Bad Person?
So, I've got a bone to pick with a certain minority within a group of like-minded people, and in particular, their opinion that birth control is bad, mmkay? I know you know who I'm talking about, and I'm very sorry if this is you. But when it comes right down to it, if I'm to be …
Is It Bad If My Partner Is Quiet In Bed?
The other day, while trolling a few sexuality-related forums, I found a question that kinda struck a chord with me. A woman asked how she could encourage her husband to be more vocal in bed. She asked if anyone had ever been with a lover who, aside from the fact that they were actively having sex, s…
Guys -Tips on Avoiding a Fast Finish in Bed
Some afternoon, you'll rush home from work, jump in the shower, and do all those manly hygienic things that you fellas do. You'll carefully style your hair in the best rocky 'do you can pull off at its current length, or stuff it all under a ball cap scrawled with the name of the…

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