Rayne Millaray is a wild, 30-something, sex enthusiast who's been "just one of the guys" for as long a she can remember. She's been having sex since 1996, blogging about her sex life since 2005, advocating for a sex-positive society since 2008 and working in the adult industry since 2010. Her writing is published on various blogs around the web, and she currently edits SexIs Magazine, which focuses on sexuality, sex and relationships. Rayne is, without a doubt, the girl your mother warned you about. And she loves it. Any questions for her can be sent to her at: firstname.lastname@example.org
Is It Okay For a Guy To Take a Photo With A Babe?
As I've mentioned before, I go to a lot of Q103's concerts. I haven't seen tickets as cheap as some of their shows since...well, before my time, and there's almost always at least one band I firmly believe is better live than any recording, so why not, right?
Why Do People Get On Strippers Cases So Much?
So last week, a coworker of mine shared a link to a relationship advice column. Some chick wrote in, plum tuckered out from trying to figure out what to do about a recent “incident” with her husband. She said prior to “the incident,” she'd trusted her husband “because she was pregnant,” which is jus…
Five Facts About Open Relationships
So, open relationships is your sticking point. That's fine. Makes sense, even. Most of us come from a similar background to my own, in which having sex with someone outside your relationship is unequivicably cheating. It's not easy opening your mind, and being okay with ways of thinking th…
You’re Monogamous, He’s Not — What To Do
My man's allowed to sleep with whoever he wants. That's not a trap for him, or some ploy to make me seem “edgy” or “progressive” to you. It's just the way it is.
Don’t Be Afraid of ‘Mastering Your Domain’
Every once in a while, I go check out comments on Q103's Facebook page on articles other than my own to see what you guys are talking about. It's a great opportunity to get a handle on the culture of the area, and learn who is going to be offended if they strike up a conversation with me i…
If You Want To Make Memorable Whoopie, You Gotta Get Your Head In The Game
I used to be a lame...rhymes with duck. No, really. It's true.
When’s The Last Time You Settled an Argument With Sex?
You know what I'm talking about. That angry, “I could totally knock your head off your shoulders!” sex that reminds you you're alive and your partner is, too, and life is grand. I mean, seriously pissed off, ready to knock each other's teeth out, can't stop swearing at each other...and then suddenly…
How Did We Miss June Being The Month O’ Mouth Party?
Okay, so I know it's almost over, but guess what June is. No really. Guess.
Newsflash! Relationships Take Work
A while back, I wrote about the importance of reacting to your partner. In the article, I went off on a short tangent about relationships being hard. That's no joke.
Helping Your Sick Partner Can Go A Long Way
So, I'm sick. I went to bed with a migraine so sharp I almost asked M to take me to the hospital. If you know anything about me at all, you know that I'll avoid going to the doctor at all costs, so that, in and of itself, is proof I'm feeling pretty crappy. Add to that the facts that I'm ridiculousl…
How To Keep The Romance Alive While Traveling
So you and your lover are going to your parents house for summer vacation. Or maybe your going camping with friends. What ever the case, you're bummin because it means sex the entire week you're grabbing cocktails by the pool with whoever is practically out of the question. I mean, what if…
Relationship Advice Can Come From Anywhere
So since this here thing I do is all about sex and relationships, and those chick rags are just chock full of good headlines (if not content) for sex and relationship advice, I went to Cosmo to look for a topic for today's post. Figured I'd just spin it so it's relevant to girls and g…