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Rayne Millaray is a wild, 30-something, sex enthusiast who's been "just one of the guys" for as long a she can remember. She's been having sex since 1996, blogging about her sex life since 2005, advocating for a sex-positive society since 2008 and working in the adult industry since 2010. Her writing is published on various blogs around the web, and she currently edits SexIs Magazine, which focuses on sexuality, sex and relationships. Rayne is, without a doubt, the girl your mother warned you about. And she loves it. Any questions for her can be sent to her at:
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What Exactly is Cheating? Here’s How to Define It.


The other day, I was discussing cheating with a woman who does a lot for the online community we're building at my “real job”...which, for those not in the know, just happens to be an adult website. The woman is in a committed relationship with two men. But she, like most people, defines cheating according to her own moral compass, which swings a little wide of conservative when it comes to sex and relationships. Obviously.

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girl the big o
SimplyAbbey, flickr

Some Truths About the “Big O”: It’s All Relative

The other day, someone tweeted five steps to a better "o". They went like this:

1 – Do it yourself.

2 – Do it yourself.

3 – Do it yourself.

4 – Do it yourself.

5 – Do it yourself.

Mere seconds after the original tweet was posted, it flooded my timeline as other people (mostly women) retweeted it. And I just shook my head.

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