Rayne

M's kid (21 – M's a bit older than me) has a very cavalier attitude about sex. I'm not really sure where it came from. M never really talked to his kid about sex beyond the typical sexual health/reproduction chat

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You are it. Not like “it” in Tag, or the kind of “it” that means you have to do some crappy task your boss created for you last night while plotting your demise. No, this kind of “it” is the kind that finds you driving the hotties home from rock shows, and gets you the best assignments at work, and returns high marks in class despite the fact that you've got absolutely no clue what you are doing

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This month has so many causes. It's Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and LGBT History Month. National Diabetes Month, National Pizza Month, and Sarcasm Month. But the one on my mind seems like a great topic for Q103. Especially

One of the most asked questions on the forums and advice columns I troll is how to keep the spark alive. Not just in long term relationships, but in couples that have just begun dating, because when we're not in relationships, we fill our off time with other responsibilities

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We need to talk about the side of sex that isn't fun - STDs. I'm about to ask you two of the most important questions you'll be asked today. You ready?

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The other day, I was discussing cheating with a woman who does a lot for the online community we're building at my “real job”...which, for those not in the know, just happens to be an adult website. The woman is in a committed relationship with two men. But she, like most people, defines cheating according to her own moral compass, which swings a little wide of conservative when it comes to sex and relationships. Obviously.

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The other day, someone tweeted five steps to a better "o". They went like this:

1 – Do it yourself.

2 – Do it yourself.

3 – Do it yourself.

4 – Do it yourself.

5 – Do it yourself.

Mere seconds after the original tweet was posted, it flooded my timeline as other people (mostly women) retweeted it. And I just shook my head.

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Let me just start out by saying I'm proud. I popped over to the Q103 tent at Qruption, last weekend, and had a chat with the lovely Jodi and Jen of the Q-tease. Turns out, some of you screwed your courage to the sticking point and got your picture taken

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As I've mentioned before, I go to a lot of Q103's concerts. I haven't seen tickets as cheap as some of their shows since...well, before my time, and there's almost always at least one band I firmly believe is better live than any recording, so why not, right?

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So last week, a coworker of mine shared a link to a relationship advice column. Some chick wrote in, plum tuckered out from trying to figure out what to do about a recent “incident” with her husband. She said prior to “the incident,” she'd trusted her husband “because she was pregnant,” which is just so ridiculous I'm not even sure where to begin, but we'll leave that for another day. Now, because of “the incident,” she feels completely betrayed and let down, and is at a loss for the reason why and the solution.

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So, open relationships is your sticking point. That's fine. Makes sense, even. Most of us come from a similar background to my own, in which having sex with someone outside your relationship is unequivicably cheating. It's not easy opening your mind, and being okay with ways of thinking that contradict your upbringing. That's life.

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My man's allowed to sleep with whoever he wants. That's not a trap for him, or some ploy to make me seem “edgy” or “progressive” to you. It's just the way it is.

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